The challenge of attracting a Gemini man can be blamed on his dual nature. You may find his interest in you when you first meet almost hard to believe. It is, in a way. That doesn't mean he's being insincere - he is genuinely interested in just about everyone he meets. It's just part of his nature to want to know a little bit about a lot of people and things.
Don't mistake this for superficiality. It is anything but. The Gemini man has a very real desire to find out who you are, because the people born under this sign have a great sense of humanity and an instinct for what makes you tick. They just don't have the given ability to focus those instincts on one person at a time.
Don't let this stop you. The innate ability that a Gemini male has for intuiting your inner thoughts and feelings can be the foundation for a rewarding and delightful relationship, if you accept his multi-faceted nature and let him explore the world and his own inner self on his own terms. If you can do that without judgment or restriction, you will be blessed with a warm, intelligent, witty, and fascinating partner.
You will capture the Gemini man's heart, and keep it, if you can continue to find ways to intrigue his interest and excite his intelligence. Feel free to reveal your true self with a balance of humor, surprise, and just enough emotion to keep him interested without overwhelming him.